There are times in life when we feel lost, and we don’t know where to go. Then everything becomes difficult, but that difficulty is, in many cases, what drives us to go further.
Instead, it sometimes happens that we feel more or less comfortable in a situation and believe that things are fine as they are. But perhaps it is a fallacy, and all is not so well.
How do you know if you are doing the right thing? How do you know if it is better to continue as you are or think about taking a leap?
The best thing you can do is look at yourself, listen to yourself, and the Universe with its signs. If all these things are happening to you, surely something is wrong with you, and you need to change things.
1. You wake up tired.
If you can’t sleep well at night, and you wake up more tired than when you went to bed, surely there is something you are not doing right.
No, I don’t mean that you should make the bed better. It is about going to sleep loaded with worries that do not let you rest. Or maybe what you’re doing doesn’t motivate you enough to want to get out of bed.
2. You often hear the phrase “you need to relax.“
If you regularly run into people who tell you to relax, you probably should. The Universe manifests itself through numerous factors, people among them.
Don’t take it the wrong way when they tell you. Take it for what it is: a wake-up call that things are not going quite right.
Boredom is an unequivocal symptom that you are not doing the right thing. Life is exciting, or at least, it has thousands of exciting things to do.
If nothing makes you feel full, if you feel bored with everything, if you are always thinking that you want to do something else, it is that you are surely not walking in the right place.
The Universe has great things planned for you, but you must dare to listen to it.
4. Everything around you annoys you
Especially people. You feel that nobody around you understands you or puts themselves in your place. Everything irritates you. You always hear wrong answers.
If that is you, surely something is not right in your life. When you are really happy, you are more tolerant with others, and when the presence of other people already upsets you, it is that you surely need to change something in your life.
5. You no longer enjoy the same things
We used to say that living bored is a sign that something bad is happening. But when you can’t even enjoy what has always been good for you… It’s time to worry!
Why can’t you have fun when you go out with your friends or when you go to the place you liked so much?
It may be maturity itself, but it may also be that the Universe is showing you that your place is not there. That your realization will pass elsewhere.
6. You live waiting for Friday
We all love the weekend. But if the only pleasant thing in your day to day is counting down the hours to Friday, something is not quite right.
You should be able to enjoy something every day, not take refuge in the weekend because, unfortunately, it lasts less than the work week.
When you are not able to value the achievements of others, it is because, without a doubt, something is missing from you. In reality, you envy what others have simply because you don’t have what you need. You are not complete.
Otherwise, you would not wish to have the life of others. So now you know, if you are having difficulty being happy for others, it is that you surely need to change something in your own life.
Is a digital marketer, yoga teacher, and writer. She's fascinated with the power of words and ideas to change the world. Kathleen loves exploring new philosophical insights from various spiritual traditions as well as popular psychology and holistic wellness practices.
